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Lonely in your Relationship?

Quick Hello!

One lady, just recently, wanted to talk about men, relationships, and sex. She said:

“We used to have so much fun, so much sex, so much connection… And now? Nothing!  I’m really sad. I miss our fun time. How the heck did we go from Flirting every day, to Fighting every day?”

You know that feeling?
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By |April 12th, 2017|Ask Helena, dating, Love, Relationships, Uncategorized|0 Comments

High Maintenance vs High Value woman

A few weeks ago, I had a session with a VERY high profile client – smart, educated, independent woman, who is also fun, beautiful and kind.

YES, a whole package woman. Pure 10.

….but she didn’t see those attributes in herself with the same glory as I saw them…

Instead, she had doubts and uncertainty about her desirability. She […]

Before & After (Inner Makeover)

Straight to the Question I got last week.
YouTube viewer writes:

“Hi there, I saw your video about feeling ugly and changing your mind. You know exactly how I feel. One difference. You are beautiful and I am not. However, perhaps you have  some insight on how I can change my ugly thinking… thoughts?” […]

Confession: Why I didn’t announce my marriage?

“What? You got married? Back in January? Why didn’t you tell me? Why did you keep it a secret?……”
And many other similar questions bombarded me via private messages after I announced that we are married. Yup. Since January 23rd. Eight months of silence… but why?

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By |September 2nd, 2014|Ask Helena, Featured, Love, Spiritual Growth|2 Comments

Dating Recipe – How to talk about “Touchy” things without sounding angry or bitter

QUESTION: “Dear Helena, when it comes to online dating, is sex an immediate and non-stop topic of negotiation? I’m feeling like I am holding back a pack of wolves sometimes. Every time I try to say it, it comes out angry and/or bitter. Any tips? Tricks?”
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By |November 11th, 2012|Ask Helena, dating, Featured, Love|0 Comments